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FLEX culture shock and adaptation during your U.S. year
FLEX finalists often feel excited and nervous at the same time. Knowing that adjustment is normal on FLEX helps you use coordinators, host families, and school friends instead of isolating.
Before departure
Learn basic daily routines in the host country: meals, school schedule, how students address teachers.
Pack coping tools: photos, a journal, a hobby that does not need much equipment. Plan regular check-in times with home that respect program rules.
First six weeks abroad
Fatigue from constant English is common. Sleep and short walks beat scrolling social media for hours.
Ask questions when customs confuse you. Curiosity is safer than guessing and offending someone.
School and friendships
Join one club or team even if you feel shy. Shared schedules create natural friendships faster than waiting to be invited.
If bullying or exclusion happens, tell your coordinator the same week. Do not treat it as something you must endure alone.
Sharing your culture
Bring recipes, music, or a short presentation about your city. Exchange is two-way; hosts want to learn from you too.
Stay honest about what you do not know. Saying “I will learn” builds trust.
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Stay connected with peers
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